11.13.2010

Is Swallowing a Necessary Evil?

Hello? Y'all know I'm not talking about me! I love to swallow, MmMm tasty!! I love to feel that hot cum trickle down the back of my throat threatening to make me gag as I choke on the last drop and lick my lips, "Thank you, may I have some more, please?"

Alas, this isn't about me, had to bring it back, whew! Anywhore, I was hanging with some of my girlfriends today when one of them admitted that she has never, ever, ever swallowed in all of your 33 years of life. Jokingly, I replied, "Well, maybe that's why your ass hasn't found the right man!"

This then prompted a 20 minute discussion about how many of us enjoy it (some on a more selective vain), the benefits of swallowing (nutrients and whatnot), the fact that none of us allow facials (nope sorry, respect the face!), and then the question came up: Is it really that important?

Personally, all the dicks I've sucked loved having me swallow their liquid fire, plus it helps that I'm extremely good at it. Plus, any guy I've ever taken the time to ask if they wanted me to swallow, the response was usually, "Um, yeah" followed by a firm palm to the back of my head and pressure to open wide. I jest. But seriously, my girl wanted me to put the question out there:

Fellas: Do you want your woman to swallow? Is there a difference in the feeling of being swallowed and popping off on, say, some tits? Is it a deal breaker? Does it influence your decision to commit to the relationship?

Ladies, you too! Thoughts? Do you swallow? Do you enjoy it? Do you do it just please your man or do you get satisfaction from doing it yourself?

30 comments:

Cheeky Minx said...

Mmmm, mmm, mmm... Considering my current craving and fascination for the joy juice, I definitely need to weigh in here.

Personally, I do swallow. And enjoy it. Actually, there have been times I've loved it. And I do it for both of us because I love to give oral pleasure (and being the recipient of its yummy fruits) just as much as I like to receive.

Would I do it merely to please him? Yes, I would. For the right man, with the right man.

At the end of the day (and in the dark velvet night), Fellatio, Cream and I are mighty good pals... ;)

Green Eyed Frenchy said...

The first time I swallowed, I did not really like the taste of it. I then felt a reluctance to do it. I only swallowed my husband once in a while, and still did not like it, but after reading that some women really enjoy it, I thought about it and tried it again. My husband was so thankful. I also read that the taste has to do with a healthy diet. Recently, I did it with a new lover and it was very enjoyable. I am converted.

ebony panther said...

I think swallowing is one of the sexiest things a woman can do. I don't think it's a deal breaker but I'm more apt to keep a woman around who swallows, mainly because it normally means she's down for satisfying my freaky side.

Black Pearl said...

Thanks guys for the comments, I can't wait to see what my friend thinks!!

Metaphysicial said...

For me, swallowing makes for a smoother cum than when she stops and switches to her hand. Switching is an interruption and breaks the rhythm of what she was doing.

It's not a deal breaker for me - I was once married to someone who didn't even give head - but swallowing just makes for an overall better experience.

Jack said...

Well, how would you feel if I tongued you until you nearly came and then stopped and tried to finish you off with my fingers? What if I had got the rhythm exactly right up to that point?

So, yes, swallowing matters to some extent. But teasing's good too, if you make the tease go somewhere. If you have a good enough imagination for where that somewhere is, swallowing becomes an insignificant rarity.

EllaGirl said...

Must a girl swallow? Well, that depends upon the man.

Do I swallow? Duh?! Of course and I love doing it.

Swallowing does imply and rightly so, I believe... that a woman is willing to let herself get lost in the energy his pleasure and since most of the time men are trying to hold out - I think they really appreciate the letting completely go aspect that a great blowjob affords.

Oh, and Pearl, I highly advise taking it on the chin every once in a while. Nothing is hotter than a greedy eager girl missing a few drops in her over zealousness. "Oh, I missed some." "Mmmm...mmm....mmm..."

Black Pearl said...

@Meta & Jack - Thank you for the penis side of things!!

@Ella - You are too funny giving me that visual of a few drops sliding down your chin as you try hungrily to lap it up!

Anonymous said...

I must admit...I am just a sipper now and only taste but hopefully I get to be a big gulper soon. I am thinking of an alias to post...

Black Pearl said...

@Anonymous - told you I'd post it here until you get that alias going!! Love you gurl!!

Library Vixen said...

it will depend on the man, on my mood, my goal. It depends on where and how I want to make the man cum in the first place. Consistency is also important to me too. I like smooth, silky creamy. I have trouble swallowing the heavier thick loads of the sticky stuff--gag for sure.

Swallow yes, I do. spray on my face, yes please. Drip from my hair, always gives me a big smile. Being open to options is key, and you friend should take that advice. Try something new. see if she may get a bit more back in return.

Ron in Florida (Ronald10021) said...

I wish my wife would swallow more often.

And @BlackPearl and @LibraryVixen--I'd love to experience it with you.

Topaz said...

As with most women here, I would say, it depends on the man. If the vibe and the energy is there, then this is always the prefered option. I generally only give head to men who I feel 'deserve' it (ie - men that can actually turn me out) - so if you've gotten to that point with me, then chances are, I'll swallow.

I agree with you on another thing - no facials! I let me husband cum on my lips once, and that is not something I want to repeat.

Pashun Nate said...

I love to swallow, give me that dick milk...as long as the man is eating the right foods, it is all good. If he pulls my hair before I swallow that makes it even better:)

V said...

With the right man, I have no problem swallowing. I'm happy to be able to up my game and give my man something he really enjoys. I do agree with Frenchy, however in that not every man has a good taste! As she has, I've read that this can be impacted greatly by diet, so perhaps in return for mind-blowing blow jobs (complete with swallowing) you could convince your man to eat a healthy balanced diet at the same time. It's win/win! ;)

1manview said...

This topic came up a few weeks ago on another site. There were more no not really from the men. Some insist on swallowing, surprisingly most were like myself, just as long as I come in the warmth of her mouth. My spouse doesn't swallow, not because of taste, but because of the thicknest of my juice. She so good at it, I can't tell if she did or not, so I think it's all in the percision of your lover... If it was good to the last drop, who cares... A bad blow job is a bad blow job, regardless if she swakkows or not...

PateInduced said...

Diet? Yes. Reflex? Yes. Do it? The one time she was ready, she didn't tell me. :( (No.) It's a wish for us, like many other wishes, but also something to look forward to. Not out of question.

Robin said...

I've never had a problem swallowing. I think (as the evidence in this thread suggests) that a guy perfers a girl to swallow. I've swallowed more than my fair share of spunk and I never had any problem with it.

I'm not adverse to having cum all over me though and I don't think that we encourage anyone to swallow if they didn't want too. What would the best of us do if everyone did afterall! Robin XXX

Libidinous Man said...

Swallowing is certainly a big turn on but it isn't a deal breaker. Popping off on a woman's tits or face feel different but has it's own pleasures. Luckily I have never been with one of those women who race off to the bathroom to spit and gargle after the deed is done.

Black Pearl said...

SHIT!! I should have talked about swallowing before!!

Women: swallow your man

Men: Eat healthy so you have yummy spunk that your woman will want to swallow!!

:-0

jacquezyon said...

Great post Black Pearl, glad I came across your site. I absolutely love it when a woman swallows, though I wish more women would do it, and with more frequency. There is a certain feeling power and acceptance that it gives a man, and what man doesn't like to have his ego (as well as his dick) stroked? Your post made me think of a poem I have posted on my blog: Letter to a Feminist Lover.
I look forward to reading through more of your blog.

Dewey's System said...

To swallow or not? That is the question? - Bill Shakespeare

the answer is that I am ... well... I am just happy to have you (the woman at question) taking me in her mouth period. The end.

Anonymous said...

Damn, you have me reminiscing like a motherfucker....as a recipient of you extraordinary talents I must say one of the sexiest things was to take a glimpse at you as I was about to explode and see that you didn't even flinch as I grabbed the back of your head and guided your sweet ass mouth deeper onto the BD.

As I exploded into your warm and sexy ass mouth....you moaned and swallowed my "liquid fire" (love that term) without hesitation....which made me want…no need…..to get some more of Ms. Good Head (LOL).

I can only speak for myself when I say that I may be the only brother on this love panel when I say "I HAD THE TONGUE RING"...Fuck...you just made a brother shiver....Miss you...you sexy ass Love Goddess..........

UNDRCVRBD (the one who filled up every orifice on that sexy as body...LMAO).

Anonymous said...

spit, swallow, gargle, or kiss?

Black Pearl said...

@Anonymous - "spit, swallow, gargle, or kiss?"
- Can you explain the question your posing? In my head the answer is 2 please!

Anonymous said...

Black Pearl thank you for putting this out there for me Yes am the one who never!!!!I love all the very sexy thoughts. This has been a hot topic and how funny my special friend recently made this quest not even 24 hours ago. I wonder if he has been reading this....LOL..Since I have never experienced tasting or swallowing I'm excited to now try it maybe sooner then later....Hopefully it's yummi to the tummi........

Black Pearl said...

Yay Anonymous!

I am so glad that you found this helpful and even happier to know that you've been inspired to open wide, let the dick slide, and swallow like you've never swallowed before!!!

:-D

Reformed Slut said...

I love to give blow jobs and I love to give head! I most definitley enjoy swallowing! ;-)

Bill said...

My lady always swallows. But personally I wouldn't mind if she spit or just allowed my cum to drip from her mouth - especially when i am videotaping or photographing us. I have to admit it IS romantic that she accepts my cum into her body by swallowing as well as into her cunt. Either way I give it to her, I always cuddle her afterwards knowing that my fresh cum is now inside this lady that I love.

Anonymous said...

I think it's only fair. If a women wants to be eaten out, and wants the man to taste her, feel her, breathe her, then she should do the same for her man.....Yes my wife does swallow :)