He is under the belief that if he were to ever give in to my request that:
- He would be emasculated
- I wouldn't be satisfied with just one time
- I would look at him differently
- He would never look at me the same
To #2 I came back with, " Isn't it better to have fucked, than never to have fucked at all? At least I can say that my fantasy was fulfilled and it was fulfilled with my husband, as opposed to still aching for it in my old age."
I'm curious, how many of you have engaged in the a 3some while in a serious relationship (either guy-guy-girl or girl-girl-guy)? How did it work for you? Were there any ramifications? Any regrets? Was it only one time or multiple? Did you enjoy it?
Please put some of my fantasy into real life perspective. Thanks.